Secrets of the Superstar NLPersft Coaches – Jamie Smart -Salad

“There’s ONE secret every coach who’s earning 6 & 7 figures knows that’s a MYSTERY to all the other NLPers, coaches, trainers & consultants…”

• You need to use Twitter, Facebook & Linked-in to build a devoted following
• You have to write books to get your name out there & establish credibility
• You’ve gotta become a mini-celebrity, & use PR to get into the spotlight
• You need to make videos to use the power of Youtube
• Plus you’d better go through a step-by-step business building plan or you will surely fail
• And so on, & so on, & so on…

TRAP NUMBER 1 – The Pit of Passivity

TRAP NUMBER 2 – The Illusion of the Expert

TRAP NUMBER 3 – The Folly of Form Over Substance

• When you develop absolute faith in your ability to get people the results they want, & to AWAKEN them to who they are, you TELEGRAPH that to others.
• When you find a deep sense of grounding, security & wellbeing within yourself, other people feel secure & grounded when they’re with you.
• When you develop true fearlessness, you let others know that there’s nothing to be afraid of.
• When you become 100% authentic, you let your clients know that it’s OK to be themselves.

Secrets of the Superstar NLPers, Coaches, Trainers & Consultants DVD Programme…

• Make a 6 or 7 figure income, doing work that you’re passionate about, with absolute faith in your ability to make a profound difference in the lives of others. How good would you feel, looking at your bank account each month & seeing a handful of 4 or 5-figure sums paid in by people who’ve hired you because they KNOW you’re going to make a profound difference in their lives?
• Live a lifestyle that you love, with the time freedom to do what you want to do, awakening others wherever you go. Whether that means waking up in a tropical climate during the winter months, spending real quality time with the people who are most precious to you, or spending your mornings in a coffee shop, catching up on the stack of books you’ve been wanting to read for years – it’s for YOU to discover the kind of lifestyle that suits who you are.
• Evolve from doing NLP, coaching, training or consulting to AWAKENING people. It’s truly humbling when your clients look into your eyes & say things like “I just didn’t realise that you could feel THIS good, and could have so much clarity!”
• Live from a deep sense of inner security, wellbeing & peace of mind that you share with clients, friends & family alike. The things which used to freak you out suddenly lose their power to bother you.
• Be a master communicator, playing at the top of your game, inspiring & helping others in profound & meaningful ways. It’s a great feeling to see your listeners utterly spellbound as you capture their attention with powerful stories & metaphors.
• Have that sense of true fearlessness that allows you to be true to yourself (men & women alike find this quality INCREDIBLY attractive). I can’t describe how amazing it feels to know that you’re being 100% true to yourself, & walking your own path.
• Wake up each day with a sense of excitement and anticipation, knowing that you’re making a real difference in the world & truly helping others.

The Six “Superstar-Qualities”

Superstar-Quality Number 1 – Your Understanding

• The “unsuspected inner resource” that exists within each person, an ever-present source of security, peace & wellbeing.
• That mental health & clarity is only ever a heartbeat away – a clarity that allows you to instantly eliminate anxiety, procrastination & hesitation.
• The true nature of how the mind works, & your infinite ability to let go of limitation & see new perspectives & possibilities.
• The true nature of reality, & how we’ve ALL been fooled by a flawed understanding. Just seeing this “trick of the mind” is enough to free you from the curse of stress, worry & anxiety forever.

Superstar-Quality Number 2 – Your Grounding

• A profound acceptance, of yourself & others. Acceptance is a MASSIVE connection-builder, & is one of the reasons that Superstars can connect so quickly & easily with others.
• The sense of fearlessness & inner security that comes from experiencing yourself as the source of your wellbeing. Again, this isn’t some intellectual hogwash to trot out at dinner parties – I’m talking about an embodied, felt experience that will nourish & support you. (It also eliminates neediness, the ultimate client-repellent).
• A deep sense of peace & wellbeing. This is one of the BIG things that makes it so pleasant to be around the Superstars, & one of the reasons they can charge big bucks. Imagine feeling so good that people will pay HUGE sums of money to spend time with you.
• True authenticity, being REAL: that rarest & most valuable of qualities. Superstar author, entrepreneur & social-media commentator Gary Vaynerchuk credits authenticity as one of the most important contributors to his multi-million dollar success.
• The GPS / Sat-nav system for your life. This inner resource is a context-sensitive, situationally relevant guidance system for your life, & your success, & it’s calibrated to everything about you – your personality, your strengths & weaknesses, even your life-purpose (whether you’re aware of it or not). It’s your ULTIMATE decision making tool.
• You’re also going to be cultivating a deepening sense of presence. If you’ve ever spent time with a Superstar, then you’re already aware of the sense of presence they bring. This is one of the things that makes Superstars so effective at what they do (it’s also a SUPER attractive quality).

“As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

– Marianne Williamson

Superstar-Quality Number 3 – Your Connection

• Super-rapport – The ability to connect with ANYONE at a deep level, & relate to them as a fellow human being. One of the creators of NLP once said that the key is to “get in touch with the human being inside“. You’re going to learn how.
• What I call “Hypnotic Listening”, the ability to listen to someone so deeply that you get in touch with their unconscious mind, & it starts communicating with you directly (I know this sounds impossible, but it’s a reality, & you can learn how to do it). This is one of the fastest rapport-deepeners I know!
• Hypnotic mind-reading. OK, if Hypnotic Listening sounded impossible, I understand that this might seem just plain crazy! But it’s a reality. When you’re listening hypnotically, you start picking up information straight from their unconscious mind, & yours will start responding. Be prepared to notice yourself getting incredible intuitions; you’ll start knowing the perfect thing to say in more & more situations (Imagine your clients, friends & colleagues responding in amazement!)
• Effortless Influence. Superstar-connection makes you effortlessly influential. The people I’ve taught it to in the last few months have been BLOWN AWAY by the impact its having on their businesses (one of my clients went for a coffee with one of his customers. Within an hour, he had a meeting with her MD. Within a week, he’d achieved his revenue target for the year. He couldn’t believe it!)
• You’ll even be able to “upload” positive emotions to your clients. Can you imagine how good you’ll feel being able to give hope to someone who’s been hopeless, peace to someone who’s been troubled, clarity to someone who’s been overwhelmed? Better yet, you’re going to be feeling these positive emotions for yourself.

“When we get too caught up in the busyness of the world, we lose connection with one another – and ourselves”

– Jack Kornfield

Superstar-Quality Number 4 – Your Transformation Technology

• How to take people into powerful SuperStates that they’d quite happily stay in for the rest of their lives. These are the underlying states that all other states are made of, so they can’t be accessed using traditional NLP techniques.
• How to alter a person’s consciousness so that things they’ve been perceiving as problems just disappear like magic.
• How to set a powerful direction before you even start so that your clients find themselves changing, easily & effortlessly.
• How to use a person’s concept of time to massively accelerate progress.
• You probably already know the presuppositions of NLP (the map is not the territory etc), but now you’re going to get them in the muscle, & live them.
• Approaches for eliminating suffering caused by worry, stress & anxiety forever.
• You’re also going to be learning how to Awaken people to who they really are, & bring them into their true power. Have you started to realise what an incredible gift this is?

“Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.”

– Arthur C Clarke

Superstar-Quality Number 5 – Your Language

• You’re going to learn how to use stories & metaphors to create powerful shifts & transformations. Even if you’ve never told a story in your life, I’m going to show you the secrets to creating compelling metaphors.
• You’re going to learn “laser questions” that get you right to the heart of the matter. These don’t just help you gather information, these questions are so powerful that you’ll see people changing before your eyes.
• I’m going to share my favourite hypnotic language patterns with you. Even if you’ve never done trancework in your life, you’re going to discover just how easy it is.
• You’re going to be using language in ways that help people make profound shifts & changes.
• You’re also going to learn a way of using language to awaken people to the reality of who they are.

Superstar-Quality Number 6 – Your Experience